As far back as I could remember, the one thing I always wished to be was a mother. I had dreams of being the perfect mom, giving and showing love and love to my children and having them give that same kind of unconditional love back again to me. Alas, that had not been designed to be. It seems God had another thing in store for me personally, something that I wasn't totally prepared for, and that was the role of your stepmom. Assisting to raise one young child that is not biologically yours..