Essay - Should the man be the main pursuer

There are reasons why men pursue women. First, men feel that when they pursue women, that they are in control. Every man has the primal need to be in control and be the alpha male. When a man pursues a woman, he hopes to come out as the alpha male. According to the article written by Georgia James, men are scientifically proven to be attracted to women who are put in less effort than women who are readily available. If men learn to be affectionate and caring towards their wives, then the relationships formed will be strong enough to withstand any problem they may face in marriage. Women are now taking the initiative to initiate relationships (James, Georgia). They feel more confident when they make the first move. They believe that if they make the first move, they will be able to control the relationship and tell the other party what they expect in the relationship. Women therefore feel that they are in the same level as the men they are chasing seeing themselves as able decision mak...