Every person, who has ever worked, knows that the work causes lots of stressful situations and makes the people to be nervous. Firstly it is because work takes a lot of time, which may be spent on the family. Nowadays both men and women are expected to work, earn money, raise the family, go to school on the parents meetings and have time for everything. Some years ago this case was not the issue because usually father used to work and earn money, and mother used to stay at home, cook, bring up the children and do the house work. But it was at the time when the economy wasn’t as bad as it is now. Unfortunately, today people need at least two incomes to provide the family just with the most necessary goods. Both mothers and fathers have to work and this is the main reason why children suffer. It is well-known fact that little children need more parents’ attention between the moment of the birth and the time when they go to school. So this is the time when parents have an opportunity not only to bring up the children by themselves but also give as much love and care as they can.
In the recent time, women rethink more and more about the moment when they should have children. It is because having children; they will be limited in time and have what to do at work and at home as well. If a certain woman wants to continue her education or to get the career, she must understand that it will be so difficult when she will have children. By the way, to have the family or just one child is so difficult. Let’s just imagine that this woman needs to work, come back home and prepare the dinner for the family, go to school and get back to take the children, do homework with them and clean the apartment. Of course, even think about this can make someone tired. But a woman should repeat doing the cases from this list every day. That is why some women agree on the not so well-paid jobs just to avoid this situation.
Not only women suffer from the stress. Men also suffer while trying to balance family and work, but they deal with this a little bit differently. For men stress is the long and hard work and the absence of opportunity to help their wives with house work, bringing up children and taking care of them. From the other hand, they may be fortunate because they needn’t worry about having two incomes. These men earn enough to provide the family, so they can allow their wives to stay at home with children. And in this way, wives shouldn’t worry about anything because they have time for all the activities and duties which mothers and wives have.
Every person, who has ever worked, knows that the work causes lots of stressful situations and makes the people to be nervous. Firstly it is because work takes a lot of time, which may be spent on the family. Nowadays both men and women are expected to work, earn money, raise the family, go to school on the parents meetings and have time for everything.