Posted at 12.01.2018
I remember while i was at the age of ten to learn a whole lot and enter trouble a lot with my mom. 1 day, my friends and were dismissed from the class early because the professor didn't feel good, so my friends went to one in our friend's house to swim in their swimming pool. This event of heading to the swimming pool has so many impacts on my childhood later.
I hesitated at the beginning fearing my mother's abuse but they persuaded me to just stay with them and don't swim. while they were swimming, I used to be looking at water constantly which automatically brought on me dizziness and I fell in the pool with my clothes on. I acquired damp but what I got concerned about is how to dried out my clothes before going home and facing the abuse. After two time of trying to dried my clothes, I was not very successful to take action. Then I started to think about how exactly I will key my mom so she will not really know what occurred because she already warned me from heading to that swimming by myself or with friends without an adult. I began to blame my friends for the trouble that they put me in, a few of them were laughing at me and others were trying to help dry out my clothes. I was very tired worried. I decided to sneak inside our house from the back door and change my clothes without notifying my mom. even as say when a very important factor go wrong everything will fail the back door was finished. I visited my nearby friend seeking another solution. suddenly I read him screaming he was getting punished too I did not what he have, so I returned to pool again it was my safe place. The first lesson I learned out of this event was always listen to your mother advices or orders in order to stay from troubles.
After handful of hours of thinking about the lesson that we learn that day, I gat and I Obtained my strength and I decided to face my mother's punishment. Honestly as i was going back home all moist and scared I fulfilled my brothers and they asked me what happened I informed them they try to escape because they fear my mother's consequence because they had to see her what eventually me or they will get punished I laughed that point because I realized that I did something wrong and I had to be punished I kept walking toward our house I was tried to knock on the door but it was wide open then I really got terrified. my lovely mother was baking us lunch but I didn't recognize that my lunch will be different than the rest. I walked to my mom and I informed her I got damp from dropping in the swimming pool of my pal. She was astonished how courageous I used to be by approaching to her and revealing her that I did so something I will not do. she told me to sit by the stair and wait for after they will finish using their lunch. I did what I was informed. later she came to and required me up to my bedroom to change my clothes and have a bath. by the time I reached within my bedroom something has evolved from tranquility and tranquility to a hurricane and storms all my own body started to damage and my cheeks were red. I remained for the reason that situation for about an hour then I realized that I got take down and I took the shower at exactly the same time. The only thing I remember was my body was shaking and harming which automatically lead me to an instant sleep. This was the second lessons that I discovered which is facing your problems will be possible for me in physical form and morally than simply hide or try to escape from your home fearing that punishment.
Few time later, I read a very nice sound calling my name. it was my mother who brought me my overdue lunch after the spicy one she provided prior. She was very kind and wondering how Personally i think after that beating. I was terrified of the second surprise but it was no second I ate my lunch break it was the sweetest ever I had in my bed with my mom next if you ask me and make an effort to please me by playing with me and placing my favorite animation on TV. I QUICKLY realize that she felt little overreacted however the important thing which i still remember is the fact that I forgot all of that day simply by her kindness that day. I believed really relieved because I had developed the courage to face my challenge and not to choose another thing that will certainly ruin my entire life. But from then on day my mom attitude toward me has changed I think she thought happy i made that decision to confront my problems which the main concern of every mom to see her children getting sensible at very early age. I QUICKLY realize that that idea of making the decision to face your own problems has modified my mother's view of me as a in charge kid who'll be fine all his life. The 3rd lesson I discovered from the event is as much the kid understand that his mother abuse is not really a true punishment this can be a warning from a responsible mother to make her children to understand how to be accountable which a lot of kids do not necessarily understand it.
To sum up, the action of falling in a swimming people has educated me great lessons that help me to manage my life and be responsible and stay away from what is forbidden because you should not reap the benefits of it at all the contrast it'll ruin your complete life.